Having a child can be very scary for people, especially parents that are just having their first child. It is even more scary to people who are in the position where they need to raise their child on their own without a partner, especially if the child is of the opposite gender. Many fathers are getting quite scared when they get a daughter simply because they are not fully aware of what they are supposed to do in all of the situations that they are going to be together with their daughters as they are growing and needing their fathers for advice and for help. Of course, when there is a mother the help is not as needed from the father when it comes to many of the problems but daughters still need their fathers and this can be very scary. It proved by researchers that fathers feel far more comfortable when they have sons rather than daughters when it is their first time they get a daughter. If you are a father who just had his daughter born or if you have a con gai that is already growing then you are probably having the desire to make sure that she grows up to be an independent and strong woman. After all, this is what every parent wants for their child because it ensures to a certain extent that their child will survive all of the difficulties in life.
There are several basic things that you should avoid as your con gai is growing up and you are looking after her. First of all, no matter how sweet your daughter is and how much you love her you should stay strong and not give her everything she wants. This is true not only when she is a child but also when she is a teenager, an young adult, as well as an adult. Your daughter will always need you as her parent no matter how independent and strong she is, because on the inside she will stay the same child and the same person that you know who is very sensitive and easily broken on the inside. You may not have as many activities together as you would with a son such as playing ball, playing cars, wrestling, and so on, but there will still be things you can do together with your daughter and getting to know each other as she is growing. It all depends on the mutual interests that you have with your daughter and how much time you spend with your con gai. Raising a child is quite difficult if you really want to have a deep relationship with her and if you want to make sure that she grows up to a woman that can manage the difficulties in her life and live a full life that you would want for your daughter. Keeping the basic rules in your mind will always help you make the right decision.